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HeightsCast: Forming Men Fully Alive

Welcome to HeightsCast, the official podcast of The Heights School. Every week, we feature interviews with teachers, educators, and experts in a variety of fields, both here at The Heights School and beyond our school's walls. Our conversations concern the education and formation of men fully alive in the liberal arts tradition. In other words, we talk about the education of the kind of man you’d want your daughter to marry. We hope that these conversations may be both delightful and insightful; and that through them, your vocation as educators may be ever renewed. Join us!
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Jun 2, 2023

This week on HeightsCast we feature Tom Cox, Upper School Latin teacher and one of the architects of the Core Humanities Sequence. In the Episode, Tom explains what epic poetry is, where it fits into our curriculum, and why we teach it. Weaving together themes from Homer, Virgil, and Dante, Mr. Cox shows us how these epic poems shape the boys' moral imaginations at a time when they are first beginning to ask life's perennial questions: What is the purpose of life? What is the purpose of my life? Can I be a hero? If so, what is my quest? By way of epic poetry, as Tom explains, the boys can begin to see that some of the most epic of all journeys may be hidden in the most ordinary, quotidien activities of life. 

May 30, 2023

"Have a great summer!" We hear it and say it incessantly, but what are we actually wishing for our boys? 21st Century America gives boys 3 months off--that is one quarter of the year and an enormous amount of time. Join Lower School Head, Colin Gleason, for a discussion of three ways that boys can fill their summer with healthy leisure and positive growth.

May 19, 2023

To learn more about the Summer Workshops, click here.

Dr. Matthew Mehan unpacks the liberal arts. We can throw the term around to describe our school, but do we really understand what we mean? Is it more than a list of good books? Dr. Mehan explores what it means to be a student of the “arts of liberty”–a life long pursuit.  For all of us.

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May 5, 2023

Lower School Head, Colin Gleason, discusses paternal patience and anger in this week's episode. If you, like so many dads, find yourself regretting the fact that you "lost it," listen in.  Mr. Gleason discusses anger and the ways that we, as fathers, can direct this emotion towards the good.

 

Apr 28, 2023

At the heart of teaching is the desire to make an impact on the lives of one’s students. Beyond conveying useful information or training them in resume-building skills, great teachers wish to help their students live well—to be fully alive. Such a task, difficult as it may be, is what mentoring is all about. 

Yet most schools may not have a formal mentoring program. In these circumstances, how can teachers, who wish to help their students in ways that go beyond math or language arts, mentor students? 

To help us answer this question, we welcome back to HeightsCast our Head of Mentoring, Joe Cardenas, for a discussion on how teachers can mentor in schools without a formal mentoring program. In the episode, Joe explains what mentoring is and why it matters, offering guidance on how to be intentional, humble, and patient as teachers seek to help students not only see the good to be done but come to want to do the good they have seen.

Register for Joe’s Mentoring Workshop here

For lyrics, translation, and history of Regina Caeli, please visit: https://adoremus.org/2007/09/singing-the-four-seasonal-marian-anthems/

Chapters

  • 0:35 Introduction 
  • 2:27 What is mentoring?
  • 4:25 Who can be a mentor? 
  • 7:40 Getting started
  • 11:26 Being intentional 
  • 12:15 Being humble 
  • 13:55 Respecting the agency of mentees  
  • 15:40 Vale la pena: it is worth it
  • 17:40 Advice for conversations with mentees
  • 22:00 An example of mentoring
  • 23:50 Encouraging without increasing anxiety 
  • 28:20 Parents as mentors
  • 30:15 Mentoring: important, though rarely urgent 

Also on the Forum 

Foundations for Mentoring Struggling Students: On Fighting the Right Fires with David Maxham

Mentoring Sons to a Successful Summer with Joe Cardenas

Finding Mentors After Graduation: On Find Your Six with Pat Kilner

On Addressing Character Defects: Thoughts on Tough Love with Joe Cardenas

Why Boys Need Mentors with Joe Cardenas and Alex Berthe

Apr 19, 2023

“Education,” wrote G. K. Chesterton, “is simply the soul of a society as it passes from one generation to another.” If Chesterton is right, then education is about transmitting a culture, for what is culture if not the embodiment of a society’s soul? And what “soul” can be passed on from one human to another if it is not first embodied? 

To discuss the importance of culture both to society generally and education specifically, we welcome to HeightsCast George Weigel, a distinguished senior fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center and a New York Times bestselling author. In the episode, Mr. Weigel speaks about Pope St. John Paul II’s “culture first” approach. Contrasting the late pope’s view with Marx’s view of economics as the primary driver of history and the Jacobin view of politics in the driver seat, Weigel explains the historical and philosophical roots of John Paul II’s view of culture as the driving force in history. 

Along the way, he discusses what culture is and what education has to do with it. 

Recommended Resources 

Witness to Hope: The Biography of Pope John Paul II by George Weigel

John Paul II and the Priority of Culture by George Weigel 

Also on the Forum 

Family Culture with Alvaro de Vicente

Creating a Culture of Learning in the Home by Alvaro de Vicente

Apr 11, 2023

In schools today, Shakespeare is often taught superficially. Students attempt to grasp the plot with the aid of their teacher, who helps them through the difficult Elizabethan English. At best they learn something about the beautification of language and the cultural significance of the Bard. But his work is not taught as it was written to be understood, that is, sapientially, for growth in practical wisdom and the ability to see more clearly the nature of man and the man’s relationship with both fellow man and God.

This week on HeightsCast, we welcome back Dr. Matthew Mehan for a discussion of Shakespeare and the education of leaders. Associate Dean and Assistant Professor at Hillsdale’s Van Andel Graduate School of Government, Dr. Mehan helps us see that there is more to Shakespeare than is immediately apparent from a surface-level reading of his plays. He explains how a deep reading of the Bard offers a training in that nimbleness of mind—a good mother wit—without which, St. Thomas More said, all learning is half lame. 

To do this, Dr. Mehan walks us through the opening of Hamlet, Act V. Not only does he offer an example of Shakespeare’s genius, he also gives an example of how to teach Shakespeare as not only aesthetically delightful but also morally instructive and useful—the ideal companion to theology and philosophy. 

For educators interested in learning more about Shakespeare and how to teach him as a teacher of wisdom, check out the Forum’s summer workshop on Shakespeare.

Chapters

  • 1:00 How Shakespeare is taught in schools today
  • 3:00 Why and how to study Shakespeare
  • 6:03 Polysemy and the good mother wit
  • 10:13 Literature as experience 
  • 12:55 Mirror neurons and man as mimetic 
  • 14:10 Ethical gyms and ethical gems 
  • 16:25 Shakespeare as Socrates, Nester, and Virgil 
  • 19:00 How to approach Shakespeare for the novice
  • 23:10 Opening up the text: Hamlet, V.1
  • 33:40 Shakespeare as teacher of self-government and liberty 
  • 35:00 Shakespeare and the American tradition 
  • 36:40 Advice for teachers 
  • 39:00 Shakespeare as a companion for life 

Also from the Forum

Summer Workshops for Teachers

Why Our Politics Needs Poetry with Dr. Matthew Mehan 

On Reading Literature by Joe Bissex 

Five Fruits of a Poetic Education by Nate Gadiano

In Real Time: The Temporal Order of the Liberal Arts by Dr. Matthew Mehan

On Pieper’s Prudence: A Virtue for the Great Souled with Colin Gleason, Tom Cox, and Austin Hatch

Apr 4, 2023

In G. K. Chesterton’s Orthodoxy, he tells a sort of parable in which children are given space to play on a mountain top surrounded by steep precipices on all sides. At first the children are left to play on the mountain top without any walls. Fearful of falling off one of the edges, they all huddle up in the middle. Then, walls are erected, and the security that such walls provide gives the children the confidence they need to play without fear of falling. 

A father’s loving presence can act like such walls in the lives of his children. Yet, at times, the practical realities of life make it difficult for fathers to be fully present in such a way. 

This week on HeightsCasts, we feature a talk given by headmaster Alvaro de Vicente on the topic of paternal presence, originally offered at our recent fatherhood conference. Although there are no set manuals for successful parenting, in his talk Mr. de Vicente suggests four areas that fathers can consider as they examine the ways they may or may not be present in their children’s lives: 

  1. The importance of paternal presence 
  2. The obstacles to paternal presence 
    1. Professional work 
    2. Personal interests 
    3. Difficult children
  3. The types of presence
    1. Physical 
    2. Intellectual 
    3. Moral 
    4. Spiritual 
  4. The stages of presence 
    1. Holding the hand
    2. Holding the back of the bike
    3. Holding the second steering wheel
    4. Holding the phone

In the end, Alvaro encourages fathers to behave as they would wish their sons to behave when they reach their own age. But when they fail, he also reminds them of St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta’s words: “God doesn't ask that we succeed in everything, but that we are faithfull.”.  

Chapters 

  • 0:14 WelcomeStart
  • 2:15 The importance of presence 
  • 5:00 Some challenges to being present 
  • 11:40 DSuggestions for dealing with those challenges 
  • 12:50 Types of presence 
    • 13:00 Physical 
    • 18:55 Intellectual 
    • 27:35 Moral
    • 29:00 Spiritual 
  • 33:10 Stages of presence 
  • 37:40 Takeaways and concluding thoughts 

Also on the Forum 

Friendship for Fathers: On Living and Teaching the Art with Prof. John Cuddeback 

The Bedrock Principle of Fatherhood with Andy Reed

The Father and His Family: On Fatherhood with Michael Moynihan 

Parenting from Fear: On Reasons for Confidence with Alvaro de Vicente 

Parental Authority: On Our Role with Dr. Leonard Sax

Mar 27, 2023

As the world of academia becomes increasingly polarized, parents may be concerned about sending their children off to colleges where the general culture and ethos of campus are less than favorable to the worldview and way of life found in their own homes. Yet, many of these institutions are also prestigious and hold promise for success in one’s professional career. 

How, then, should parents think about sending their children to such institutions? How should students, who have decided to attend them, approach their time there? Fly under the radar? Be an argumentative warrior for what they think is true? 

To help us think through some of these questions, we welcome Nate Gadiano, Executive Director of The Heights Forum. Drawing on his experience as an undergraduate at Princeton and a graduate student at Notre Dame, Nate shares his thoughts on engaging with academic communities and cultures that differ from one’s own upbringing. 

This podcast discussion was occasioned by a recent talk given by Mr. Gadiano for a group of parents, in which he discussed how parents can prepare their children for different college environments. In that talk, Nate gave seven principles for engaging with others in a fruitful and friendly manner: 

  1. Go where you are not welcomed.
  2. Make your beliefs normal and attractive. 
  3. Don’t argue with strangers; discuss with friends.
  4. Prepare more than you plan. 
  5. Find the heart of the disagreement. 
  6. Think long term.
  7. Approach souls on your knees. 

In the end, Nate’s message to students as they prepare for college is contained in these words: be careful that in winning an argument you don’t lose a soul; be careful that in winning a friend you don’t lose your soul. 

Chapters

  • 1:15 Introduction 
  • 3:35 Sending your children to universities with antithetical worldviews 
    • 4:32 A caveat: know yourself 
    • 5:30 Digging into the why: service of souls
    • 6:08 In Our Lady’s secret service 
  • 7:10 Advice for high school seniors 
    • 8:10 Go where you are not welcomed
    • 10:50 Make your beliefs normal
    • 11:48 Answer contempt with compassion
  • 14:00 Finding a coach and a team
  • 16:40 Advice for difficult conversations 
    • 17:20 Prepare more than you plan
    • 18:05 Have more than you show, speak less than you know 
  • 19:45 On preparation
  • 22:10 On friendship with people who disagree 
  • 22:45 Discovering the hidden good
  • 28:00 Is it possible for people to change their mind?

Also from the Forum 

Parenting from Fear: On Reasons for Confidence with Alvaro de Vicente

The Man Fully Alive: On Our Vision with Alvaro de Vicente

When to Fight: On Fistcuffs and the Peacemaking Protector with Kyle Blackmer

Finding Mentors After Graduation: On Find Your Six with Pat Kilner

On Preparing for Bad News: Raising Men Who Can Handle It with Dr. Matthew Mehan

Mar 13, 2023

Parents love their children and desire the best for them. Yet at times the world seems full of dangers and obstacles to a child’s ultimate good. Because of this, a certain fear may cast a shadow on the ways parents relate to their children. 

To discuss parenting and fear, we welcome back Mr. Alvaro de Vicente to HeightsCast. In the episode, Alvaro explains some of the dangers of being overprotective and parenting from a sense of fear. Rather, he encourages parents to prudently discern moments to give their children the space for making the right choice on their own, which of course means that they also have the freedom to make a mistake. At the same time, Alvaro offers advice on optimistic and formative ways to say “no” to one’s children, when such is necessary. 

As Alvaro reminds us, gratitude for the good received helps one to make positive decisions about the good to be done. If families make intentional time to remember and give thanks to God for the goodness in the world, parents and children alike will be naturally drawn to that Goodness from which the world came.

Chapters

  • 0:40 Introduction: fear based parenting 
  • 2:15 Why we fall into parenting with fear
  • 3:50 Manifestations of parenting with fear 
  • 9:05 How and when to say “no”
  • 11:58 The middle class myth and parental anxiety 
  • 14:05 Why parents should avoid this mode of parenting 
  • 17:20 Rebellious children 
  • 19:05 Why we shouldn’t be afraid
  • 21:40 Practical considerations
  • 27:12 The unexpected, difficult questions 
  • 30:30 Parenting with optimism 

Also on the Forum 

Parental Authority: Our Role with Dr. Leonard Sax

Discipline in the Classroom: The Art of Order with Colin Gleason

Friendship for Fathers: Living and Teaching the Art with Prof. John Cuddeback

Parenting: Patience or Optimism with Andy Reed

His Anxiety and Ours: Confessions of an Anxious Parent Who Happens to Be a Therapist with Alex Berthé

Mar 6, 2023

In the past twenty years, research suggests that parents are worrying more about their children and spending more to provide them with comforts. In spite of such worry and wealth, the past twenty years have also seen an increase in these same American-born children from well-to-do families being diagnosed with various psychiatric disorders. Meanwhile, parents tend to swing from overly strict to overly lenient. Balancing love, both tender and tough, is a difficult art. 

To help us dive deeper into this parental task, we welcome Dr. Leonard Sax to HeightsCast. In the episode, Dr. Sax discusses his book, The Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-Ups. Drawing both from the wisdom of the ancients and the insights of modern science, Dr. Sax explains the importance of parental authority in raising children. Besides discussing parenting authority, he also offers thoughts on the importance of culture and schools, urging parents to consider carefully and choose prudently the school to which they will send their children. 

As Dr. Sax reminds us, authentic freedom is not mere license, and if children are to be free in the end, they must, at the start, have the right amount of parental guidance. To give too much freedom too soon may end in the very loss of the freedom which one would have hoped to give. 

Chapters

  • 0:30 Introduction
  • 2:15 What is parental authority?
  • 11:00 Parental worries 
  • 19:05 Some statistics on psychiatric diagnoses in America
  • 21:30 Parents and the transmission of culture
  • 23:35 The middle class myth 
  • 27:52 “Elon Musk” schools vs. “Mother Theresa” schools
  • 32:20 Shifts in American culture from 1967-2017 
  • 34:40 Approaching difficult grades as a parent
  • 38:25 Too hard, too soft, or just right: should parents negotiate?
  • 45:50 Advice for single parents 
  • 49:10 Fake it until you make it
  • 53:45 The importance of intergenerational bonds

Recommended Resources 

Boys Adrift: The Five Factors Driving the Growing Epidemic of Unmotivated Boys and Underachieving Young Men by Dr. Leonard Sax

Why Gender Matters, Second Edition: What Parents and Teachers Need to Know about the Emerging Science of Sex Differences by Dr. Leonard Sax

Also on the Forum 

Discipline in the Classroom: The Art of Order with Colin Gleason

Carpool: Making Commute Time Good Time with Kyle Blackmer

Friendship for Fathers: Living and Teaching the Art with Prof. John Cuddeback

Feb 24, 2023

Hell, Dante expresses, is being trapped by our false attempts to be free. Thus, the Comedy’s Satan is forever stuck in the ice of a lake made frozen by the beating of his wings as he attempts to “free” himself from the reality of God. Education, on the other hand, frees us from such a lake by leading us to embrace, with the fullness of our being, the Truth which sets us free.

This week on HeightCast we welcome Dr. Joseph Lanzilotti for a discussion of what Pope Benedict XVI can teach us about such an education. Drawing especially from the late pope’s 2008 address to educators at The Catholic University of America, Dr. Lanzilotti explains how hope and the beauty which engenders it rests at the heart of Pope Benedict’s response to what he called a crisis of education in the modern world. 

Moving between theology and praxis, Dr. Lanzilotti focuses our attention on the nature and calling of educational institutions, both as they relate to the Church and to the world at large. Beyond places of data transfer or ready-made success measurable by test scores, such institutions are meeting places that reverberate with the life of the Church. They are places where students encounter the truth and especially that Truth which is found in prayer. They are places where beauty—the splendor of truth—can reverberate first in the hearts of students and then in the families and communities where they are called to serve after graduation. 

Chapters 

  • 1:23 Introduction: Pope Benedict XVI’s address to educators
  • 2:40 The virtue of hope and education for the future 
  • 6:22 What does it mean to be a Catholic educator? 
  • 11:00 Restoring the fullness of Truth, Goodness, and Beauty 
  • 13:30 The importance of why questions
  • 14:30 The communal dimension of education
  • 19:10 Egalitarian elitism and intellectual charity 
  • 21:35 The intellect and the will 
  • 25:15 The will and our heart
  • 28:25 The interaction between affectivity and the human heart
  • 30:50 Moral truth
  • 33:55 The adventure of education 
  • 37:53 Both for Catholic institutions and Catholic teachers who are not in Catholic schools
  • 40:15 Concluding thoughts: more than a facade 

Additional Resources 

Introduction to Christianity by Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger 

Truth and Tolerance: Christian Belief and World Religions by Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger

"Joseph Ratzinger as Doctor of Incarnate Beauty" by Tracey Rowland 

"Address to Educators at The Catholic University of America" by Pope Benedict XVI 

"Letter on the Urgent Task of Educating Young People" by Pope Benedict XVI

"General Audience on Prayer and the Holy Family of Nazareth" by Pope Benedict XVI

"Message on Silence and Word: Path of Evangelization" by Pope Benedict XVI

Also on the Forum 

Order and Surprise: On Beauty and the Western Tradition with Lionel Yaceczko

Artwork in Schools: On the Buildings that Build Us with Joe Cardenas

On the Education of the Human Heart with Anton Vorozhko

Feb 17, 2023

What does it mean to be “civilized”? What is justice? What is a citizen? Given the opportunity, would you have killed Julius Caesar? Was Nero inevitable, or is it possible to keep one’s wits while running such a powerful empire? 

These are a few of the questions that eighth graders at The Heights are challenged to ponder together in their core class. With the help of their teachers and a new history textbook, the boys not only consider these questions amongst themselves but do so in dialogue with some of the greatest thinkers of the Western tradition. 

This week on HeightsCast, we discuss Tom Cox and Bill Dardis’s new book, Becoming Rome: Foundation, Republic, and Empire in the Words of Eminent Romans. In addition to sharing the story behind their writing, Tom and Bill introduce us to their method of teaching history at the primary and secondary school levels. Drawing on fourteen years of experience in the classroom as well as graduate studies in the liberal arts, Tom and Bill offer practical insights for teachers who hope not only to bring history to life in the classroom but also to prepare their students to bring those lessons into their own lives.

Chapters

  • 0:32 Introduction
  • 2:00 A better approach to the history textbook
  • 4:50 The big questions hidden in the narratives of history
  • 7:00 The contemporary approach to history lessons
  • 9:56 Receiving tradition and engaging it 
  • 11:00 Why study history at all? 
  • 15:50 A roadmap to history 
  • 19:15 Method of the book 
  • 24:23 Seminars and discussing difficult topics 
  • 28:15 Why write a book? 
  • 31:32 The book’s target age level 
  • 32:45 The relationship between Christianity and the book 

Also on the Forum 

The Importance of Ugly History by Mark Grannis

Keeping the Story in History by Mark Grannis

Seeing History: On Using Images in the History Classroom by Kyle Blackmer

Hillsdale’s M. Spalding on the Importance of History Pt. I with Dr. Matt Spalding

Hillsdale’s M. Spalding on the Importance of History Pt. II with Dr. Matt Spalding

Plutarch’s Lives Teach: Character Education through Story with Tom Cox

History the Way it Was…and the Way it Should Be by Bill Dardis

Writing and Thought; Oratory and Ethics: What We Give Our Seventh Graders in the Core with Tom Cox

Feb 7, 2023

As teachers and parents, it is often difficult to find the balance between leniency and strictness, love and fear. Getting the right tone, being firm in principle and flexible in preference, is indeed an art and an especially difficult one. While nothing can replace personal experience for growing in this art, self-reflection is a great aid to this end. 

This week on HeightsCast, Mr. Colin Gleason, Head of the Lower School, offers an aid to our personal reflection. The episode features a presentation by Mr. Gleason from our recent Art of Teaching Conference. At that conference, he spoke to seventy men from across the United States and beyond about how we, as teachers, can foster an environment of respectful dominion in the classroom. Colin offers a list of twelve principles, together with a great many practical pointers and delightful anecdotes.

In the end, the point of discipline is to foster the right tone for learning, the proper culture for growth. Whether this growth occurs in the home or in the classroom, having the right tone is ultimately about love. Rome, they say, was not loved because she was great; she was great because she was first loved. So too our sons and students. 

Chapters 

  • 2:25 Beginning with the end
  • 3:50 A question of balance 
  • 6:35 Principle #1: Discipline begins before class begins
  • 8:32 Principle #2: Best disciplinary tool is a good lesson plan
  • 12:25 Principle #3: Fostering class culture is more effective than listing class rules
  • 14:40 Principle #4: We earn capital outside to spend inside 
  • 17:05 Principle #5: Smiling isn’t enough; we need to laugh
  • 19:45 Principle #6: Let them love what they see and fear what they don’t 
  • 24:45 Principle #7: Don’t confuse personal preference with principles 
  • 25:40 Principle #8: Non-correction corrections
  • 27:35 Principle #9: Replace star stickers with handshakes
  • 29:15 Principle #10: Learners over lessons
  • 31:25 Principle #11: Replace line-writing with push-ups
  • 34:30 Principle #12: When you send students to the principal’s office, your authority goes with them 

Also on the Forum 

Boys, Education, and The Heights with Alvaro de Vicente

Raising Contemplative Sons: The Problem with Boys with Colin Gleason 

Our Little Protectors: How Do WE See Our Boys? with Alvaro de Vicente

On Recess: The Benefits of Free Play with Colin Gleason

Toughness for the Adolescent Boy by Kyle Blackmer

Seeing Our Boys with Loving Eyes: Not Projects, but Persons with Tom Royals

Why Boys Need to Be Given Freedom by Andy Reed

Material Order and the Middle School Boy with Kyle Blackmer 

Can I Catch It?: On Handling Wildlife with Eric Heil

*For lyrics and history of  the Ave Regina Caelorum, please visit adoremus.org.

Jan 27, 2023

It’s not merely where you are going, but how you get there, that matters. And as we often find ourselves going places in cars, it is worth stopping to consider how we spend our car rides. 

In this week’s episode, we welcome back to the podcast Mr. Kyle Blackmer for a discussion of the daily commute. Whether we carpool or ride solo, Mr. Blackmer helps us to reframe how we approach this daily endeavor which can easily become, at best, dead time and, at worst, dreaded time. 

Kyle shows us how the car, with the right attitude and a little creativity, can become its own classroom. He encourages us to think about how we can best use this time by praying, engaging in good conversation—at times mere fun, at other times more formative–, listening to good music and books, and celebrating. 

Chapters 

  • 00:45 Introduction: reframing the daily commute 
  • 3:20 How can we make carpooling more fruitful for our sons? 
  • 5:43 The car as a classroom: the first and last period of the day
  • 6:22 Four modes of teaching in the Car
  • 6:45 Prayer, especially the Rosary, especially in the morning 
  • 9:28 Car as a place for friendship, shared life 
  • 10:55 Conversation in cars
  • 16:20 The art of asking good questions and listening 
  • 17:15 Tuning into the boys in front of you
  • 19:16 Setting guidelines for your carpool
  • 21:10 Being intentional about what you listen to 
  • 25:35 Audiobooks and classic rock
  • 27:50 Celebrating the in little ways
  • 31:20 Finding moments for little points of correction 
  • 33:30 Advice for solo commuters 
  • 35:50 The last three minutes: preparing for your return home 

Recommended Audiobooks for the Road

The Mysterious Benedict Society by Trenton Lee Stewart

Seabiscuit by Charles Rivers Editors

Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown

The Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Grahame

Treasury for Children by James Herriot

Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingallas Wilder

The Jungle Book by Rudyard Kipling

Tarzan of the Apes by Edgar Rice Burroughs

The Once and Future King by T.H. White

The War of the Worlds by H.G. Wells

The Complete Father Brown Collection by G.K. Chesterton

A Canticle for Leibowitz by Walter Miller

Also on the Forum

On Home as Social Hub: The Importance of Hosting Our Sons and Their Friends with Tom Royals

Friendship for Fathers: John Cuddeback on Living and Teaching the Art with John Cuddeback 

Sarah Mackenzi on the Read-Aloud Family with Sarah Mackenzi

Jan 18, 2023

In a recent national survey of adults in America, a striking sixty-one percent of young adults (age 18-25) reported feeling serious loneliness. Such feelings of loneliness were also accompanied by anxiety and depression. Although humans are by nature social animals, it would seem that forming deep friendships may not always come so naturally.

How do we form friendships? How do we help our sons form friendships? What even is friendship?

To help us answer these questions, we welcome to HeightsCast John Cuddeback, professor of philosophy at Christendom College and Life Craft writer and speaker. In this episode, Professor Cuddeback helps us understand what friendship is, how to practice the art of friendship, and how friendship goes hand-in-hand with happiness. As he explains, friendships do not merely happen. Rather, they require intentional cultivation and sustained effort. Indeed, like any art, the art of friendship requires discipline and practice. Specifically, Professor Cuddeback focuses our attention on how a husband can form a deep friendship with his wife and a few male friends, as well as how he can help his children to grow in their own friendships. Being a father first, he may one day become a friend of his adult children. 

As Professor Cuddeback explains, true friendship is the only way to overcome loneliness in life. And, in the end, it will be in sharing our lives with friends that we come to find the ultimate meaning of our lives.

Chapters 

  • 1:25 What is friendship? 
  • 4:15 Different kinds of friendship 
  • 9:05 Friendship and human flourishing
  • 11:05 Happiness today 
  • 14:00 The activities of friendship
  • 19:40 The number of friends
  • 24:40 Friendship for the twenty-first century father
  • 28:00 Selecting friends 
  • 33:30 Friendship with your spouse 
  • 41:10 Friendship with other men
  • 44:30 How to prioritize relationships
  • 47:15 Parenting and friendship
  • 50:47 How to coach our children in forming friendships
  • 55:37 Advice and encouragement for single mothers

Resources

Life-Craft.org

True Friendship: Where Virtue Becomes Happiness by John Cuddeback 

Nicomachean Ethics by Aristotle

Spiritual Friendship by Aelred of Rievaulx

Treatise on Law by Thomas Aquinas

Also on The Forum

Cultivating Friendship in the Classroom by Austin Hatch

On Friendship after Senior Year: Higher Stakes and Beautiful Opportunities with Dave Maxham

Friendship for the 21st Century Boy with Alvaro de Vicente 

On Home as Social Hub: The Importance of Hosting Our Sons and Their Friends with Tom Royals

Jan 5, 2023

With another year having passed—perhaps even sped by—and a new one underfoot, HeightsCast returns with a discussion of time and solitude with Mike Ortiz and Rob Greving. Together, Mike and Rob invite us to slow down as they unpack their two recently published articles on the Forum. 

Mr. Ortiz dives into Henry David Thoreau’s cabin life and the importance of intentional times of solitude in our lives, while Mr. Greving considers our often uneasy relationship with time and the good of slowing down, even as the world speeds up. 

As we look forward to the new year with hope and anticipation, let us not forget to slow down and, in Mr. Greving’s words, listen for the present moment. After all, you can’t read a poem in a hurry. And if you are always in a hurry, you might miss the poetry of life. 

Chapters

  • 1:45 Background to the articles 
  • 5:43 Thoreau’s way of solitude: the path to a greater appreciation of the world 
  • 10:15 Never less alone than when alone
  • 13:30 Time alone and listening for God
  • 15:55 Silence and the capacity to attend 
  • 20:55 Having more that is worth less
  • 22:55 Handling time gently 
  • 30:08 Times of leisure in the life of a school 
  • 32:30 Beyond life hacks: cultivating a disposition 
  • 40:56 Poetry, solitude, and time
  • 45:13 You can’t read a poem in a hurry 
  • 48:02 Slowing down in family life 
  • 53:00 The importance of not over-scheduling kids
  • 57:15 Conclusion and a closing poem

Recommended Resources 

Walden by Henry David Thoreau 

The World of Silence by Max Picard

Living in Liturgical Time by Terence Sweeney 

"Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening" by Robert Frost

"Mossbawn": Two Poems in Dedication by Seamus Heaney 

Also on The Forum 

Thoreau’s Cabin Life: Why It's Not Anti-Social to Savor Solitude by Mike Ortiz 

Handling Time Gently by Rob Greving 

The Freedom to Form Bonds: Kevin Majeres on Mindfulness and Attention with Kevin Majeres

Forming Deep Workers with Cal Newport

What Is the Difference between Free Time and Leisure? by Joe Bissex

Dec 15, 2022

From the very start, the founders of The Heights understood education to consist in the communication of a culture. As culture often enters a boy's mind through his senses, an important means of this transmission is the art and architecture of a school. Indeed, in many ways buildings embody the ideals of an institution. 

This week Joe Cardenas, head of mentoring and long-time art history teacher, joins us for a conversation on the importance of beauty in education. Rooting the conversation in the American tradition, Joe helps us see why and how the art and architecture of schools is as important as the books in its curriculum. 

As we hear from Joe, the art on a school’s walls become the images adorning a student’s soul. If we want to help our boys be at home in their very selves, the art of schools is an indispensable means to this end.

Chapters

  • 1:25 An evening of art for parents at The Hawthorn School
  • 4:40 Art and beauty in the American tradition
    • 5:35 Washington’s leadership at Valley Forge
  • 7:23 Why does beauty matter?
    • 9:00 The museum of our soul and the archive of our experiences
  • 10:43 What is the role of beauty in a school building?
  • 14:13 Pope Benedict XVI on Beauty
  • 16:00 Cardinal Newman on Beauty
  • 17:22 Beauty and the daily reality of boys
  • 21:25 Beauty in business
  • 24:00 Robert Jackson and the early years of The Heights
  • 28:30 Churchill’s speech on rebuilding the House of Commons

Additional Resources 

Adoremus.org's explanation of the Four Seasonal Marian Anthems (includes history and translation)

PDF of Music and Lyrics to Alma Redemtoris Mater from gregorian-chant-hymns.com

Speech on the Rebuilding of the House of Commons by Winston Churchill

Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson

The Feeling of Things, the Contemplation of Beauty by Joseph Ratzinger

A Catholic Eton? by Paul Shrimpton

Also on the Forum 

School Tone, the Most Powerful Teacher with Alvaro de Vicente

Building Little Houses: Why Random Art Projects Are Awesome by Joe Bissex

Manners: The Art of Happiness by Robert Greving

Why Our Politics Needs Poetry with Dr. Matthew Mehan

Five Fruits of a Poetic Education by Nate Gadiano

Dec 5, 2022

In many schools, education is understood in reductively intellectual terms. The point of teaching, it would seem, is merely to inform, to fill the mind with data, to train the intellect to perform tasks and solve puzzles. To be sure, information and intellectual virtues are essential aspects of education; but they are not the whole, and to make them so would be to reduce the person to his mind. 

In this talk, taken from our recent Art of Teaching Conference, Anton Vorozhko helps us understand the role of the heart in the education of the whole human person. Starting with a reflection on the greatest of teachers, Christ—the one to whom all other teachers ought ultimately to point—Anton offers advice at once practical and personal. His talk centers on three areas, or apostolates, which he suggests teachers should consider: presence, correction, and prayer. 

In the end, considering these three apostolates will help teachers turn their daily work into what St. John Henry Newman called a cor ad cor loquitur—a heart speaking unto heart—making his task not only to inform the mind but equally to move the heart.

Chapters

  • 0:05 Other men are teaching!
  • 1:00 Looking to the ultimate models: Our Lord and many of the saints 
  • 3:40 The dream of Don Bosco and the Preventive System 
  • 7:20 Conquer through love: seeing Christ in our classroom 
  • 10:03 Not a job, a vocation 
  • 11:24 Three apostolates of the teacher: presence, correction, prayer
    • 11:40 Apostolate of presence 
    • 15:30 Apostolate of correction
      • 17:48 Suggestions from Don Bosco 
    • 19:05 Apostolate of prayer
  • 21:45 St.  John Paul II as a university professor 

Additional Resources 

Forty Dreams of St. John Bosco: From St. John Bosco’s Biographical Memoirs by St. John Bosco 

Witness to Hope: The Biography of Pope John Paul II by George Weigel 

Also on The Forum 

The Art of Teaching: On Forming Contemplative Souls with Rich Moss

Developing Your Son’s Will with Andy Reed

The Freedom to Form Bonds: Kevin Majeres on Mindfulness and Attention with Dr. Kevin Majeres

The Talk and Beyond with Michael Moynihan

Nov 14, 2022

In this episode, we feature a recorded lecture given by Rich Moss in his introductory presentation at the Art of Teaching conference hosted by The Heights Forum last week. In this talk, Rich explains why teaching is an art, what that art is, and what are the tools utilized by the teaching artist.

Nov 3, 2022

Boys love concrete details and, even more, they love when those concrete details form the fabric of a hero's tale. Indeed, as Aristotle himself knew, better than telling adolescents merely about virtue is giving them examples of heroes, for good men are not made in theory, but in practice and boys need to see virtues practiced to be inspired themselves.

What better place to turn than an author who has taught generations of leaders, not least of which were our own country’s founders. That man is Plutarch and our guide is Tom Cox, one of the architects of the eighth grade core humanities class and current upper school classics teacher. 

In this episode, Mr. Cox shows why and how we teach Plutarch to our boys. He explains why it is important to find the good even in heroes that are less than saints and helps us understand that education is more than something that merely happens; it requires a boy’s freedom.

Although heroes may not be saints, they are good starting points. It is perhaps not mere happenstance that Plutarch wrote his biographies as the Evangelists were writing their lives of life’s Author. As the Greek philosopher was a master at portraying those little details which form a hero’s character, it is the man from Nazareth who teaches us to turn them into heroic verse—and that is the beginning of holiness.

Chapters

  • 1:15 How did you find Plutarch? 
    • The eighth grade core 
    • A biographical approach to history 
  • 4:20 Why read Plutarch?
    • A good storyteller
    • An inspiration to Shakespeare
  • 6:10 What does Plutarch tell us about being a good man? 
    • The peak of a mountain of tradition 
    • Seeing the goodness first: heroes and saints
  • 13:10 What are some of the best lives to take a look at? 
    • Alcibiades 
    • Mark Antony Publius 
    • Cicero
    • Cato the Younger
  • 19:54 Connecting pieces of the curriculum with Plutarch 
    • Government and Literature 
    • 20:20 Gospels
  • 22:35 On the formation of leaders 
    • 24:20 Connecting to the American leadership 
  • 28:10 Plutarch and the education of citizens 
  • 33:04 Where to start? 
    • Alexander the Great and Pompey 
    • Brutus and Caesar 
  • 36:09 How to teach Plutarch
    • Difficulty of translations 
    • A little at a time
  • 38:15 The Plutarch Podcast and Grammaticus.co

Additional Resources 

The Plutarch Podcast

Grammaticus.co

Lives by Plutarch

Also on The Forum 

Writing and Thought; Oratory and Ethics: What we Give Our 7th Graders in the Core with Tom Cox

History the Way It Was… And the Way It Should Be by Mark Grannis

Aristotle on the Student’s Job by Tom Cox

Seneca on the Teacher’s Job by Tom Cox

Oct 27, 2022

This week on HeightsCast, we feature headmaster Alvaro de Vicente’s open house speech on the mission and vision of The Heights School. In the speech, Alvaro helps parents discern the right school for their son. Understanding education to be essentially about partnering with parents to transmit a culture, he encourages parents to thoughtfully consider the culture of our school and how it relates to the culture of their own homes. In addition, Mr. de Vicente offers a few words on our vision of manhood, suggesting that to be a good man, one must also be quite dangerous: powerful enough to do damage, but with the moral character to do great things. 

Chapters

  • 1:17 How to discern the right school for your son
  • 1:45 Education as transmission of culture
  • 2:46 Our vision 
    • 3:20 Dangerously good: what it means to be a man
    • 6:15 Our goal 
  • 6:50 How to make this vision a reality
    • 6:57 Partnership with parents 
    • 8:35 Growth in virtue
    • 11:40 Model the culture and counsel your sons 

Additional Resources 

Against All Hope: A Memoir of Life in Castro’s Gulag by Armando Valladares

The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis

Also on The Forum

The Man Fully Alive with Alvaro de Vicente 

Self-Mastery: Alvaro de Vicente on Fostering Interior Freedom in Schools with Alvaro de Vicente

Who Am I?: The Question of Persona with Alvaro de Vicente

Our Little Protectors: How Do WE See Our Boys? with Alvaro de Vicente

Forming Wise, Courageous Risk-Takers with Alvaro de Vicente

Oct 20, 2022

This week on HeightsCast, we feature a recording of the 2022 Headmaster’s Lecture on the man fully alive. In this lecture, Mr. Alvaro de Vicente helps us understand what we mean when we use St. Irenaeus’ oft-quoted though seldom understood words that gloria Dei est vivens homo: the glory of God is living man. 

Mr. de Vicente shares his thoughts on the destination and the road ahead, suggesting that to live fully on earth we must understand that the fullness of life is found only in heaven. And if we are to reach this destination which is our destiny, we should see this life as practice for the next. 

In particular, he offers three actions that are the best practice for heaven:

  1. To play
  2. To see
  3. To commit 

Taking us through each of these, Mr. de Vicente helps us to approach life in a playful way, taking ourselves lightly and others seriously; to discover the beauty of the world, contemplating with loving eyes and a grateful heart; and to commit fully, passionately persevering in our love for others. Our boys will not live these ideals perfectly—we will not live them perfectly—but if together we begin and begin again often, we will be well on the way; and that will be a taste of heaven. 

Chapters 

  • 2:43 Origins of the tagline “Men fully alive”
  • 4:01 Man fully alive: what does this mean? 
    • 4:14 Common notions
    • 5:18 Man as the masterpiece of God
    • 7:56 What is man
    • 9:01 Crisis of masculinity: either brutes or wimps
  • 9:45 Life on earth as a preparation for heaven
    • 11:07 What is heaven?
    • 12:36 Practice for heaven
    • 13:16 A man with a mission
  • 16:31 To play
    • 16:33 Physical play 
    • 19:06 Approaching life in a playful way 
    • 22:31 A game with two halves
  • 26:09 To see
    • 27:56 Blindness as an illness of the soul
    • 29:36 The Little Prince and our inability to see beauty 
    • 30:54 When the truth complicates my life
    • 32:48 Who you are and what you are here for
    • 33:32 On contemplation 
      • 34:36 Finding beauty  
      • 36:47 Life as a museum 
      • 37:21 Seeing with the mind’s eye
      • 39:41 Seeing with the heart 
  • 41:33 To commit 
    • 42:11 The man in a wheelchair
    • 43:40 Closing doors
    • 45:20 On the passions
    • 48:01 Commitment is different from a self-help book 
    • 48:41 Screwtape on love and marriage 
    • 51:58 Faithfulness over time is the name of love (Benedict XVI)
    • 52:41 The danger of overcommitting 
  • 54:26 Conclusion 

Also on The Forum

Foundations of Hope: Raising Optimistic Men Fully Alive with Alvaro de Vicente

The Education of “Men Fully Alive”: The Mission and Vision of The Heights with Alvaro de Vicente

Who Am I?: The Question of Persona with Alvaro de Vicente 

Our Little Protectors: How Do WE See Our Boys? with Alvaro de Vicente 

Forming Wise, Courageous Risk-Takers with Alvaro de Vicente

In Defense of Victory by Kyle Blackmer

Additional Resources 

Against Heresies by St. Irenaeus

Oct 14, 2022

In this week’s episode, we discuss science fiction with Mr. Joe Breslin, fifth grade teacher and soon-to-be published author of Other Minds: 13 Tales of Wonder and Sorrow. Surveying the wide umbrella of literature and film termed “sci-fi,” Mr. Breslin helps us understand what makes this genre of literature valuable, interesting, and beautiful.

As Mr. Breslin explains, science fiction done well offers a celebration of the human person, showing us in often strange ways what is possible for us as thinking beings. Moreover, by removing us from the humdrum of our ordinary lives and instilling a sense of awe as we experience another world, science fiction can provide new insights into old problems, helping us rediscover the wonder of our own everyday lives. And this is often much needed–for although our world may never be lacking in wonders, we may at times find our weary selves lacking in the wonder to see it.

Chapters 

  • 1:40 What is science fiction?
    • 2:20 Science fiction vs. fantasy 
    • 4:30 Kinds of science fiction
      • Space opera
      • Hard sci-fi
      • Dystopia 
      • Post-apocalyptic 
      • Steampunk 
      • Military 
      • Horror 
      • Classic
  • 11:30 Insights from different genres
  • 13:03 Personal favorites of Mr. Breslin 
  • 16:10 Why is science fiction valuable?
    • 17:37 Perception vs. reality 
    • 18:27 Anthropology through another lens
    • 19:19 Science fiction as a humanistic kind of literature 
  • 22:13 Challenges of writing science fiction 
  • 28:45 Mr. Breslin’s own writing
    • 30:30 A common thread: strange encounters
    • 32:32 Self-publishing 
    • 34:35 Good fiction infused with Faith 
  • 38:38 Why read science fiction? 
    • 40:25 A caveat: the danger of focusing on man under a single aspect
    • 42:43 Literature: utility and enjoyment 
  • 44:50 Learn more about Mr. Breslin’s work

Also on The Forum

Modern Literature: On Curating the Contemporary with Michael Ortiz

Guiding Our Boys through Modern Literature with Joe Breslin and Lionel Yaceczko

Exploring and Expressing the Human Condition through Literature with Michael Ortiz

Forum Reviews

Additional Resources 

Joey Breslin Writes, Mr. Breslin’s writing website

Oct 6, 2022

From the boys’ choir in the lower school to the men’s chorus in the upper school, informal performances at faculty dinners to songs at the annual Maryland Day Gala, singing echoes throughout the whole of The Heights experience. This week, we sit down with Mr. Patrick Love, music teacher at The Heights since 2004, to discuss not only when and where we sing at The Heights but why we love to sing so much.

As you’ll hear, singing—broadly understood—is at the heart of our school's mission. Cantare amantis est, St. Augustine tells us: singing belongs to the one who loves. And as Arthur Clutton-Brock wrote, “education ought to teach us how to be in love always and what to be in love with.” In educating our boys to become men fully alive, then, we are ultimately helping them to love, to find their voice, and to fall in love with One who sings them into existence.

Chapters

  • 3:40 Where does singing happen at The Heights?
    • 4:30 A musical history of The Heights
  • 8:00 Where does singing happen amongst the faculty?
  • 12:27 What motivates us to sing? Why do we sing?
    • 13:45 Only the lover sings
    • 15:30 From The Magician’s Nephew
    • 18:40 Singing: the real deal
  • 21:00 Love, education, and singing at the crossroads
  • 22:23 Fr. Luigi Giussani and the CL Songbook
    • 23:30 Singing in the home
    • 25:28 John Senior
    • 29:45 Cal Newport on technology fasts
  • 31:10 On iTunes
  • 32:46 Singing in the homeroom: teaching as singing
  • 39:00 Singing and silence

Also on The Forum

Additional Resources

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